My suggestion for first time anal-er's is to buy a butt plug set with different sizes....and just experiment with the butt plugs and if you want, some other toys.....

It's always good to have your girlfriend 'clean out' (that's what we call it, in the Adult Industry!) Simply go to a big pharmacy and ask for a Fleet enema, (Fleet is a brand name) but you must get the big bottle. Tip the solution out and fill with warm water and she needs to keep using the enema until the water runs out clear.

The main thing is that your girlfriend feels comfortable - Have a couple of drinks to loosen you both up, first play with different size plugs and toys and use loads of lube, then when your cock is hard, slowly ease your cock in slow and steady, a vibrator on the clit helps too!

Good luck EML xxx

Anal is so nice because, of course, it is good to try new things and it also feels really dirty and wrong!

This is what I do - go out and buy an anal douche from any sexy shop, and an enema from any chemist. Use the enema to clear yourself out (make sure there's no poo left inside before you begin!) or there will be a mess for sure. Never think there won't be! It has never happened to me, thank God, but has to others!

Then fill the douche with warm, not hot, water and rinse yourself out again. When the water runs clear you're good to go. Buy yourself a dildo, not too big, average sized, to warm up your bum or you can use a small or medium sized butt plug. Use lots of silicone or anal lube on her bum hole and start by slowly moving toy in and out, leaving it in for longer periods as this will stretch the bum so it won't hurt when the cock enters.

Once you feel confident you're both ready (also remember - don't think about it hurting, as this will make the bum hole tense up and it will hurt!)

Make sure you start in spoons or cowgirl position, doggy style is a little uncomfortable to do first but you can build up to it, let her guide your cock in so she can go at a pace she's comfortable with, start slowly with again lots of lube. Your girlfriend should take deep breaths once you're inside, if she feels a slight sting or discomfort her first reaction might be 'quick quick take it out' but she should try to relax, breathe deeply and you can gently take a few strokes and if that goes well you can begin!

If it is too painful to start with, then pull out and then put in again and the stinging isn't there, once she's stretched opened it feels fine and is very enjoyable!