Hey Chick...

I say, build up your confidence, and give her a call... what's the worst that can happen?

As for being good under the sheets with your lucky lady, just do all the things you wish someone would do to you, and don't be afraid to ask Miss X what she likes and doesn't like.

I always pretend I know what I'm doing, even when I don't, everyone loves a little confidence, even if you have to make it up for a while, no-one will know, you'll soon get into the swing, and be able to roll with your saucy experience... and if that fails, I'm holding bi-curious classes round mine, where everyone's welcome to practice on me!! hehehe...

Good luck... you'll be fine!

Dear Curious Girl!!!!!

I have always loved girls and always wanted to be with a girl ever since I was first sexual. My first experience with a girl was at 18.

You have to take it in small steps and have fun being with it... Just experiment to the limit with what you feel comfortable with. It's just like being with a guy but sweeter!!

I would never change anything with my experiences... I say go for it. Good Luck.

EML x

I think doing something sexual with a girl for the first time is almost as scary as the first time with a guy. In fact i would say it's more daunting because when you read magazines about having first time sex with a guy there is usually loads of advice, but with a girl you dont tend to find much help in your mags!

So personally i would say kissing is a great way to break the ice, as you have already done this with her it's not as daunting and at least you know her kissing technique. I love loads of kissing on the neck and blowing lightly into my ears, it makes me go all gooey inside and makes me pretty much anyones lol.

Take loads of care on her nipples because some women are more senstive than others, but i like mine to be gently nibbled and flicked with the tongue.

Gradually work your way down her body and kiss her belly button and work down to her thighs. Gently kiss her thighs and move towards her pussy. Tease her first - don't plunge your way straight in and make sure you concentrate on every last inch of her pussy, but slowly start focusing more on her clit. I like my clit to be pulled up and someone to lick me like that, but like i say, every girl is different. Im sure you will be able to tell by her moans if she is enjoying it or not.

It's up to you whether you slide a finger or two inside her but make sure she's really wet.  Personally i wouldn't use dildos just yet, maybe if you get off this experience with her you will want to repeat it.

If she has been with another woman before, then you're cool because you can let her take the lead, but if not, just experiment, get to know one another and most importantly have fun!

To Curious Girl,

Well if you don't put yourself out there and pluck up a bit of courage to call this hot chick then you'll kick yourself and regret it forever. My mum always said to try everything at least once, and due to that great advice I love a bit of lady action!

If you want to make a good impression in the bedroom, stick your head deep in between her thighs and look up at her whilst circling her clit with your tongue and just keep asking her if she's enjoying herself, and/or what she would like you to do. Communication is the key to good sex! Every girl likes to get off in different ways just like how all guys like different types of blow jobs.

And failing that, if you don't make her cum and she doesn't fancy you anymore, or if you don't call her at all, then pass her telephone number onto me!!

Hope this helps.

Renee Richards x

My first g/g experience was on film and i was nervous too, but in an excited way not a scared way. When i got there, the producer told the other porn chicK this was my first film and my first g/g EVER so the other girl kindly took me under her wing and led the way.  

So just talk with this girl and be honest. None of us are born sexually experienced. We all have to start somewhere!

Hopefully you know enough about your own body that you can help her in pleasuring you but when it comes to her let her show you what she likes and how she likes it done. There is never a right or wrong way to do things, as everyone is different.

The fact you're new to girls really doesn't matter. The point is you're new to this chick and the experimenting and learning is the fun bit - so just relax!

Have fun! xxx Sandie

I would say go with it!

You look at a girl and wonder what it is like and think girls are beautiful... they are, trust me - getting in to it is wicked!!

I was very nervous about before I got with a girl, but it is nothing to be nervous about, it is hot!

And there is nothing like a good load of oral - girls do it better then any guy ;)

xxx